Major life events impacting your career?

I had a similar conversation in a session some time ago.

Yes, major life events impact your career. That’s why they’re called major LIFE events. Life. Got it?

Your career is a part of it, and there’s a general misconception that in different phases, work or life predominates over the other.

We’re used to the “you can’t have it all” mantra.

But what if we change the paradigm?

You can have all you set your mind to.

Our brain is an intricate map of wires, and the bigger the target, the more energy and effort it devotes to it.

So, if you simply split your attention into multiple targets, or instead focus on a specific one, or switch attention frequently, you may lose sight of what is relevant and irreplaceable.

As a brilliant corporate lawyer and devoted mother, you’ve managed the demanding balance of high-stakes deals and bedtime stories, client meetings and school recitals.

Despite your tireless efforts, you now find yourself grappling with a devastating blow: being abandoned by your spouse for a younger woman, just as you are on the brink of achieving partnership.

“Why now?” you ask

when your children are growing up and you are so close to the pinnacle of your career. It feels like the worst moment possible.

It’s natural to question yourself in times like these, to wonder if this happened because you weren’t enough, or if you somehow lost your grip on the things that matter most.

But let me assure you, dear reader, this is not a reflection of your worth or a testament to any failure on your part.

Consider the stories of other remarkable women who have faced similar heartbreaks.

Even high-profile, seemingly perfect marriages like those of Natalie Portman or Angelina Jolie have ended in divorce.

These women, despite their immense success and public adoration, experienced personal challenges that remind us all that no one’s life is as flawless as it may appear.

The outcome of this difficult period is not a measure of your inadequacy but rather an opportunity to rediscover your inner strength and resilience.

“Your worth does not come from maintaining a perfect facade, but from the valuable, indomitable spirit within you.”

You are not defined by the actions of others or the unexpected turns in your personal life.

Instead, you are defined by your ability to rise above challenges, to find strength in adversity, and to continue pursuing your dreams with unwavering determination.

So, as you stand at this crossroads, remember that your journey is far from over.

The qualities that have brought you to the edge of partnership—the dedication, intelligence, and perseverance—are the same qualities that will guide you through this personal upheaval.

Embrace your worth, honor your achievements, and know that you are more than enough, just as you are!

I’m here to help you.